emeraldlady ([info]emeraldlady) wrote,
@ 2005-07-06 11:48:00
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OOC public service announcement
My apologies to people who see this multiple times. Again...

In particular for cammies who rumor monger: (no one named specifically but boy did I hear interesting things this weekend)

My love life is none of your business.
The love life of my friends is none of your business.
My personal live and the personal lives of my friends is none of your business either.
If any of us choose to divulge the details of our personal lives to you, we will do so and then it is perhaps your business in the sense that you may listen.

You are not granted permission to conjecture as to whom I sleep with. You are not granted permission to ask others whom I sleep with. You are certainly not granted permission to tell others that I am sleeping with anyone whatsoever. Nor are you allowed to publically speculate upon the nature or health of my relationships.

This should be made crystal clear immediately. Further, if I hear of anyone doing so I will be contacting your coordinator and filing a complaint in the future as my love life is, I repeat, none of your damned business and further I detest unfounded and totally false conjecture.

Additionally I will also take it poorly if you choose to conjecture on something else such as metagaming, my MC class, or the stats upon my sheet. It is, like the rest, none of your damned business (unless you are my ST or in my ST chain and if you have a complaint you may direct it immediately to them.)

Additionally for the record despite that it is not any of your damned business...

I am not sleeping with Jay. I have never slept with Jay. I will never sleep with Jay. or JD. He is, in case you noticed, not quite into women, despite the fact that he hugs very well and is nice to curl up on a couch with. A hug does not mean you are sleeping with someone.

The fact that I am NOT sleeping with either of them is NOT negated by the fact that my PC's have and likely will again sleep with THEIR PC's. It is in-character. It remains there. Newsflash: my characters do many things that I will never do. They are pieces of paper.

I do not have 'hard role play' and have IC sex with people, even when they are my boyfriend, and particularly when they are NOT my boyfriend. This includes aforementioned individuals.

I do not have cyber scenes with any of the aforementioned individuals, despite my IC relationships with them. They are IC. Not. OOC.

I am not sleeping with anyone other than said boyfriend, that being Jake Tessler.

He's not sleeping with anyone else either.

We don't have an open relationship. We are doing fine, we are wonderful, and no I will not send you a wedding invite someday because it's none of your damned business.

That said...get your nose the fuck out of my life before I remove it with a sharp object.



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[info]pcharacter
2005-07-06 09:11 pm UTC (link)
Wow. I'm really sorry to hear this kind of BS is going on.

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[info]northernminx
2005-07-06 09:17 pm UTC (link)
It's the cam, it happens. I just dislike ignoring things as i feel in ignoring them I am really just sanctioning that sort of behavior. Thus da commentary ;)
;hugs: thanks

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[info]jaselyn_kane
2005-07-12 10:55 am UTC (link)
*hands Lana the double edged ax she bought Pearce for Valentines Day*
This should do the job hun. BTW, should there be a wedding, I expect an invite... even if all I can do is send a nifty gift. Especially after last years April Fool's prank. ;)
I understand how you feel about the rumors and the ignoring of them as I have had to deal with them a time or two myself and I have found that ignorign them is, in fact, not the way to go. They just tend to gain momentum if you let them go. And, like I said on Jay's LJ, I don't understand how anyone could think Jay would have sex with you after seeing him with JD. Now sleeping is a completely different thing as he looks very cuddly, you have said he gives great hugs and people can fall asleep on the couch in front of a movie... I've done it enough. But someone else making these observations would require common sense I suppose.
*HUGS*

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